Comfort is a place where most couples want to get and feel good about getting to, a place where most people would agree is what a wonderful long term relationship is all about.
But, what happens when comfort lends it’s way to laziness, procrastination, taking our partners for granted, and resting on our laurels.
Read my thoughts on breaking out of our patterns of comfort here.
My theory and focus of work comes from a sex positive view point. What that means is that I celebrate sex. I encourage open, honest expressions about sex, and sexuality. I embrace fluidity, change, ebbs and flows. And, consensual between adults, is key.
More recently I have embarked on a more in depth look at sex and it's various practices, many of which are shunned by society. I have teamed up with a crew of other sex positive people, Darvo Hi Films and Overlooked Productions, and we are working towards making a sex positive documentary film. The goal being to expose and enlighten, through immersion, the various practices of sex, sexuality, and gender in different regions.
The project is called Temples and Brothels. It is a sex positive film. You can read the blog Here. You can friend us on Facebook orTwitter. You can donate. Your contribution is key to helping us spread, through immersion and exposure the humanity of life through sexuality.
The Best In Sex Radio with Mou
Tune in weekly to my podcasts. Currently, is an ongoing 8 week series with special guest Moshe Ben-Yosef, Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in LGBTQ, sexuality and religion, coming out issues and more. LIVE every Thursday at 9AM Pacific Standard Time, (and replay anytime on demand).
Marriage, Money and Porn: A Quick and Easy Guide By Moushumi Ghose
My first book is almost here! This guide helps couples survive the common yet stressful day-to-day occurences which are are all too common in relationships today. From money to the accessibility of porn. The eBook will be available Tuesday September 6, 2011.